its been a while

its been quite a while since i've blogged...ages really.. and in this time span i've started work...moved to a new place and met tons of new people...while at the same time, all my friends have found a job, moved away, continued studying or have gotten married. its weird. the whole concept of growing up. it seems like yesterday when i used to fight with my father's friends..and today, i'm working, they can't grasp the concept either.
Its like, you are so detached from what is happening, when in fact its your life you're watching unfold. its a concept i'm yet to grasp-one of responsibility, one of a world so different from the one you know at home and amongst friends. A world that isnt exactly enticing in its being either!!
But you learn to live. and that i believe i have; it is so true- the concept of survival of the fittest, though your definition of the fittest may differ from person to person...it is survival at the end of the day.
Its like everybody lives in parallel worlds. Everyone has a life that is moving in fast track. parallel and simultaneously, just very different from yours. Friends, Family,Strangers-everybody.
I guess this is what i dont understand...that every life is intertwined, as by the chaos theory but at the same time independent in its being...it has to be one of life's mysteries, one i'm not so sure would hold as much allure and questioning if someone were to stumble upon the answer :)